Norm and I visited St. Mihiel American Cemetery a couple of weeks ago – the last World War I American cemetery on our list to visit while in France.
Every time we visit one of these cemeteries, I see row upon row of white marble crosses and stars of David, and my head acknowledges that each of those stones represents a life.
But my heart wants to know who they were.
Though they may find comfort within the loving embrace of the cool earth, their stories must not lie buried and forgotten.
I never learn every man and woman’s story, sad as that is. But I do learn something, and when I do, I must share it because their lives need to be out there in the cosmos so that everyone will know who they were and what they gave for others.
Maybe I only do this for myself – to make myself feel a little better about this idea of loss.
I learned about John Wickersham and the letter he wrote to his mother the night before his death.
I discovered the story of Lt. Edward Peters, too.
He died in battle on March 11, 1918. Just like all the other mothers who lost sons to this war, Edward’s mother did not want to say goodbye to her son. No mother wants to say goodbye to her child, no matter what the circumstances.
She had these words etched onto the back of his cross: “Sits He with those who praise their God for that they served His world.”
Then she did something that none of the other mothers did – she moved to France to live in the town where her son lost his life.
And when she died, she was buried in the local cemetery across from St. Mihiel in a grave that faced that of her son.
She wanted to be near her son for eternity.
Norm said, “If you were his mother, I know you would have done the same.”
Yes, Norm is right. I will never be far from our child. Even death will not separate us.
But this mother’s story is not the story here today.
Today the story belongs to the soldiers.
“Time will not dim the glory of their deeds.” Gen. Pershing
I once saw a plot (in Florence, Italy) where six children from the same family had died…and of course, wondered what happened to this family? accident? disease? So many stories to excavate. Thank you for this link, Stacy.
Thank you for visiting, Monica. ❤
Norm said, “If you were his mother, I know you would have done the same.”
What a wonderful mother you must be, Stacy Lyn. What a bittersweet beautiful post.
I don’t know about how wonderful I am as a mother, but I do know that I would cease to be without my daughter. ❤
What a deeply moving post (and also the beautiful post with the poem by John Wickersham). It makes me feel that we are all more connected up than we like to think – if we take a bit of time and trouble to imagine.
Yes, we are all connected by a web of life. I also like to think that the past has never really passed. ❤
It is my job to tell the stories of all those soldiers buried at the Saint-Mihiel American Cemetery here in Thiaucourt, France. Every day, I am so proud to work for ABMC and be able to tell visitors the story of some of our soldiers who lay for eternity in this peaceful land of France. We take a good care of them. thank you Mrs. Allbritton for what you wrote about them.
Nadia (Associate – SMAC)
Thank YOU, Nadia for doing such a wonderful job. I (and all the visitors to St. Mihiel and the other cemeteries) really appreciate what you do for our servicemen and our country. ❤
So heartbreaking to think of the tremendous sorrow experienced by the loved ones of these brave soldiers. I, too find these sacred places full of untold stories and wish they could be told. There aren’t enough pages in the world to tell these stories, but we can honor them just the same – told or untold. xx
Exactly, Karen – though all of their stories won’t be told, we can honor them nonetheless. ❤